Principles 1. If I want to live a peaceful, constructive, free, and joyous life, I must engage in an ongoing search toward my spiritual center, as that center holds all of me together and enables me to grow. When I direct my search toward my spirital cen- ter, I grow emotionally and spiritually. 2. To conduct this spirital search of myself and for myself, I need to learn to give up trying to control anyone or anything outside myself and many things inside myself as well. 3. A Power greater than myself is guiding my life whether I re- cognize it or not. The sooner I learn to become aware of, to trust, to use this Power to help me in my search, the easier and less painful my search will be. 4. I am free to use this Power or not, as I will. If I set my will against my Greater Power, I suffer unnecessarily (not be- cause this Power is punishing me or making things difficult for me, but because I make it difficult for myself by not al- lowing my Greater Power to help me). When I flow with my Greater Power, my life becomes beautiful and serene. The choice is entirely mine. 5. Preferably with the help of my Higher or Greater Power, I gradually need to become aware of, and accept, all the in- ner workings and comments of my emotional self. I need to become increasingly honest with myself about my past and present attitudes, feelings, emotions, thoughts, behavior patterns, and motives. 6. I need to become increasingly open with at leat one other person, but preferably more, about all my emotions and emotional patterns as I discover them. 7. I must increasingly accept myself exactly as I am--without hiding, disguising, distorting, or rejecting any part of myself -- and without judging, condemning, or denigrating any part of myself. 8. My internal rhythm is determined by my emotional and spiri- tual components, not by my conscious mind. I need to real- ize that I cannot change as fast as my brain thinks I should, but that I can and do change at a rate determined by my own internal rhythm (no one else's)--so long as I am willing to continue searching. 9. If anyone has wronged me at any time in the past, I must gradually come to forgive that person freely and complete- ly. The sooner I can do this, the sooner I will be relieved of the grudges and resentments which continually gnaw away at my insides and block my spiritual growth. I do this by releasing these people and asking my Higher Power to bless them, to care for them, and to see that only good comes to them. I can greatly help myself in this by doing a kind act for these people, preferably without their or anyone else's knowledge. 10. If I have wronged anyone in the past (no matter how justified I think it may have been), I must freely admit it and even- tually make amends and/or restitution where I can. The sooner I can do this sincerely and honestly, the sooner I will be relieved of the increasing loads of guilt I have been un- consciously carrying around for years. 11. Having admitted my wrongs toward others and having made resti- tution, and having freely forgiven all others of the wrongs done or imagined toward me, I can and must then come to for- give myself for all past wrongs I have done to others and to myself. I need to learn to be good to all of myself, to be gentle but firm with myself, and, most of all, to be as patient and understanding with myself as I try to be with others, and as I hope they will be with me. 12. I need to continue being honest with myself on a daily, and eventually an instantaneous basis. When I discover that I am wrong, I need to learn to admit it as soon as possible (re- gardless of who else might be wrong too, because that is not for me to judge). 13. I need to realize that my brain is only a small part of me which can neither predict the future nor plan my life to my best advantage. Only my Higher Power can do that, if I let Him or Her. So I need to come ever close to the Higher Power which is partially within me. I do this through daily or several-times-daily prayers and meditations, asking only to know my Higher Power's will for me and then quiet my mind so that I can hear the answer. 14. I need to work with others who need and ask for my help be- cause *only* by trying to help them can I help myself. Only by freely giving away what I discover and receive can I keep it and use it in my life. 15. As I continue to work on these principles and to become aware of others patiently, ceaselessly and tirelessly, one day at a time, or one minute at a time, I gradually begin to substi- tute "want to" for "must" or "need to" in all of them. They become an ingrained part of my consciousness as they are al- ready embedded in my unconscious or superconscious. As this process slowly progesses at my own inner pace, I come to ex- perience increasing inner peace, love and joy, regardless of my external circumstances, which themselves seem to improve continually.